Parenting- heal yourself first!

Kids are pure vessels full of life. It's such a miracle how true, authentic and real they are. And then they become conditioned accordingly to parents behavior and emotions. It's such a difficult responsibility of a parent to help child navigate their emotions. If as parents we will teach them to block their natural emotions by our reactions as too aggressive or withdrawal it will do a lot of harm to them. If they block anger they will also block their joy. Welcome depression, anxiety, passive aggressive resentment, coldness, low self esteem, diseases as organic manifestation of repressed emotions, disconnection from yourself, from what you want and who you are. Kids always will try to please parent because of fear of being abondonted. What we water will grow. Parents! I feel you! We are going through so much stress, having our own traumas but the best gift you can give to your child is to heal yourself. To understand yourself, to learn live all the emotions (even anger) in healthy way without hurting others. God created our nervous system, our emotions. Emotions are valuable guides that help us and we need to allow ourselves to let them be and to learn HEALTHY ways to express them. It takes sincere desire in your heart to move toward love and peace. It takes so much couraget o face yourself. It takes so much patience. Hurting people hurt other people. Love is the only right answer. Take care of yourself! Face the truth! Know your limits! Ask for help! It's an illusion that others are living perfect life (social media lie). Everyone is going through challenges. Be kind to each other. Find someone to share, to get support. We should stay positive but healthy positivity is facing and accepting the truth and working toward love with hope, patience and faith. Unhealthy positivity is closing eyes to truth that hurts, numbing emotions, using unhealthy coping meachinsms in order not to feel. It's better earlier than later to heal yourself. But better later than never. Everything is for the best. It's all gonna be good. Love heals and covers everything. Whatever you are going through you are not alone. Please do the first step toward healing and the path will unfold📷